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1. Tea update: so far, I hate it.

Have been drinking Twinings English Breakfast while waiting for my Adagio advent box to arrive, and my verdict is it makes my mouth taste like I ate dried grass. But it is better for my stomach already, so currently I have a cup of tea and then a cup of coffee.

The Adagio arrived last night so this morning I tried their English Breakfast version. Verdict: a richer flavor of dried grass.

I got the Advent box so I could try a wide variety of tea types and flavors without committing to a full package of any. I will keep trying!

2. PT update: my next appointment isn't until January 7, so I have to get serious about doing my ankle exercises more consistently. It's tricky because some require me sitting with my legs extended (like on my couch), some require standing in bare feet, and some require standing in sneakers. I think I have figured out the best solution: to do them in the morning, but break them up and align them with my regular morning routine. The band ones get done in the early morning as I sit on the couch and play around on the phone with my tea/coffee. The barefoot stretches get done as I make breakfast and do dishes in the kitchen. The heel raises and balance ones get done after I get dressed and put on my shoes for the day. There is one more that is a barefoot standing one with a band, to work on strengthening my arches. Those get done here in the office, while I catch up on DW and do my own post.

My morning routine is very consistent and so far it has been v easy to fold these in, much like I did the bed-making and tidying up. I am encouraged this will work. An added bonus: my ankles and legs get nicely stretched, which helps a lot in moving around the rest of the day. Doing it at night when they are already swollen and tired has felt useless.

3. I am watching Pluribus. Read more... )

4. Several of my husband's gifts were gadgets for the car. I do drive a LOT, so what he got will actually help. There's a nice garbage bag/backpack type thing to use instead of throwing it all in the passenger foot well. A tray that sits in the passenger seat that makes it more level and has a couple of places to put small items so they don't slide around. Lastly, an automatic tire inflator, which I need since my tires appear to be very sensitive to weather changes and are low again. 

5. I hated Florida, and always will, but I miss my mother's house and my father's neighborhood. I miss how the neighbors were out and active, stopping by the dog run gate in the morning to say hello to Molly, joining us on our daily walks, just hanging out in the street and talking. I get why my dad spent so much time in the garage, overseeing all the goings-on but also being a leader of it. None of my neighbors are like that here. They give friendly waves and that's about it. Their neighborhood felt like a community, like the one we lived in growing up. 

I also really miss my mom's house. It had so much light and openness, and breezes across the house all the time. I went into some of the neighbors' houses, and theirs didn't have that. They had heavy furniture, or closed blinds, or just the set up was tighter and darker; Theirs felt like a house that could be in Mt. Prospect or Kenosha but just happened to be in Florida. My mom deliberately decorated and designed the house to maximize that warm resort feel. There was such peace and calm there. I don't want to recreate that here -- my small house is better suited to be full of plants and pottery and snuggly dogs -- but I definitely miss what she built there for them and for their guests. 

I miss it for them, and honestly I miss it for me. I spent almost five months down there -- three were just me and Molly -- and it was therapeutic as much as it was traumatic. Even when my sister was torturing me via text during that time, and oh God that part was very traumatic, I could still open the sliders to the lanai and listen to the breeze flapping the flag on the dock. 

Or maybe that's just winter boredom talking. 
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 Christmas was harder and sadder than I was expecting. I watched a string of old Christmas movies, and Pluribus, and in the middle of one of them -- maybe Home Alone? -- just completely broke down in hard, racking sobs. Fucking grief always manages to kick me in new ways.

But my husband bought a pile of thoughtful gifts, and filled my stocking with scratchies, and made us kielbasa and kapusta and yummy little pierogis. My only task was to wash the dishes afterward. I needed the break. 

And now it's over and I am off to work today. Work will consume most of my free time and thinking time for the next week, as I work a bunch of extra shifts to cover for an injured co-worker, and have to take down my Christmas booth in between all of that. This will be good for me, I need my mind on something else than my sadness.

Speaking of work, it's time to go get ready. Enjoy the time off, regular worker bees!


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 The first weekend of the 12 Days of Christmas Sale was stunningly good. In 3 days I made over $2100 gross, which is often what I make all month. My best year for November/December was 2023, when I opened up my big double-booth. I am less than $200 from that peak, and there are two more weeks to the month. It's going to be my biggest payout yet. So excited!

My boss told me that I came in as the 5th highest seller in the store last month. I bet I do the same or better this month. So very validating.

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Christmas shopping proceeds apace. I never get it done early, I am usually too focused on Thanksgiving, and Black Friday weekend at the store, and then getting the tree up and house decorated. By the time I start thinking about gifts, I only have 2 weeks to go, and I need to figure out shipping too. At least now it's only worrying about shipping to Connecticut for my sister, and Detroit for the nieces.

Speaking of painful reminders, USPS informs me there are a bunch of Christmas cards coming from my parents' neighbors and friends in Florida. I got weepy just seeing the email message. 

I don't do cards, haven't done it for years. But I will send replies to them. 

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One of the nicest things about being able to set my own schedule is that I can change it when the mood strikes. I was looking at my running list of to-do in my Notes app, and realized I really want to get out of the house this morning. So the at-home chores move down the list, and the outside errands move up. I think I will be adding a few thrift store stops too; Mama needs to source more to sell more!

Today is still bitterly cold, but it looks like it's the last brutal one for a while. Will be in the 20s and 30s this week. Yes, you warm-weather people, that's pretty balmy for us right now. 
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 The mantle is decorated. The tree is up but not decorated yet; it takes a while for me to correctly fluff out the branches so they aren't any weird gaps and the lights are distributed evenly. You would think that would be easier with a pre-lit tree but it is not. 

I have to re-arrange the art glass in the living room to accommodate the Christmas decorations, although in fairness it was an overdue task anyway. Since I am still building my collection and deciding what styles and items I like, it's always a work in progress. On the plus side, it also means I will have more items to flip in the booth. 

Also half-way done: repotting several of the indoor plants. This now also part of our living room decor, and changes here also impact changes in the art glass. It's all one big cycle that takes time, even though ultimately I do enjoy it. 

What DID get completed is I cleaned up the jalousie window porch so R can use it as a mudroom for the winter, and R did as I asked and cleaned up his semi-permanent piles that had gathered just inside of all the doors. Between the dog gear, his smoking gear, his winter clothes gear, and firepit gear, I am honestly surprised he doesn't have more piles. (Don't tell him I said that, I can't encourage his disorganization.)

ALLEGEDLY the roofer is coming today to work on the gutters, but it is just as cold as it was last week, and there is now even more snow and ice so we are skeptical today is the day. I would be more upset with them about all these delays, but then I read that this is the snowiest early winter we have had since 1978. So of course back before Thanksgiving they thought they could get it done, even waiting on materials. No one expected this much snow because we haven't had any this early in over 40 years. 

I do hope they can get it done this week, though. The dripping icicles are all around the front door and path to the cars, and it is scary af to walk around. I use so much salt right now, but it is an endless cycle. 
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I hope this isn't completely nuts but I am temporarily adding a new booth for 3 months just for Christmas.

Here are the pros:
1. The manager is giving me a great deal on the rent. It helps her so she doesn't have to worry about bringing in a new vendor during our busiest season, and of course it makes it much easier for me to make a profit.

2. I already have enough display fixtures in my basement so I don't need to buy anything extra.

3. I have an insane amount of Christmas inventory. At least 12 full shelves in my basement. I couldn't sell any of it last year because I was in Florida, and I had been stockpiling. It will take me years to sell it all.

4. It was going to be a massive logistical challenge taking things out of my current booths to make room, and now I don't have to. So I don't lose potential sales on those items. And it cuts down my work in half -- I only have to concentrate on setting up/tearing down 1 small booth, not 2 or 3.

5. Hopefully this will go a long way toward my basement project in terms of selling off my excess inventory. I am even going to put price tags on the fixtures (the shelves and tables) and maybe sell some of them too!

6. Will be a good distraction during this first season without my parents. They both died around the holidays last year, so it's all I would be thinking about otherwise.


Here are the cons:
1. It's a lot of extra work.

2. I had other projects queued up for September but now it just needs to be pricing ornaments 24/7!


Yeah, it will be worth it. Cha-ching!
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